Whoo hoo! Fixed it!
Thanks for the help, but it turned out to be a fairly simple fix. I needed a MSDOS boot disk with NTDETECT.COM and NTLDR on them. After I realized that it was looking on the right hdd, just in the wrong directory (you were right on the mark when you prescribed a virtual flip Danleff, Grub had already done that for me), I copied these two files directly to the C: from the dos window. It is important not to allow it to go to c:\windows or it will never get a chance to read them. If you start up with the windows install disk, and go to the recovery console, it automatically sends copied files into the windows directory. So now I have Mandrake fully occupying the primary hdd and xp completely confined to the secondary hdd. 8) I get a boot.ini error, but it does not affect the boot up and I can tweak that out later.
Thanks for the time. I tend to do thingd, then break it, then learn how, then fix. A bit of a challenge sometimes, but it solidifies the learning ( I belive they call it an experiential learner).
Thanks again for the help, I'll keep watching and maybe pass on any other things I might find.
Later:
Adamgdwn