OK, just to clarify what I did... because it was pointed out to me that it may not be clear.
My configuration is 1 98SE box, 2 win2k boxes, 1 XP box ...
On the XP box, I'm using an administrative account as my login [yes i know; security, blah blah]... and the same on my 2k box.
Net share [sharename] /DELETE
and
Net Use [drive:] /DELETE
this was the first thing I did for each of the drives I intended to use, to either share on or share to my XP box. IE: clear up any GUI mess ups or retentions.
I then made a batch file called drives.bat - and i place a "shortcut" in my programs/startup/ folder so it loads up every time my PC boots.
CR600000-A << this is the PC name for my Win2k Machine
HIGHMAGUS << this is the PC name for my WinXP machine
DRIVES.BAT - on XP machine
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NET USE X: \\CR600000-A\F /PERSISTENT:NO
REM * I DO THIS FOR ALL DRIVES I WANT TO CONNECT
NET SHARE C=C:\ /UNLIMITED
REM * I DO THIS FOR ALL DRIVES I WANT MY XP BOX TO SHARE
I've rebooted both my 2k and my xp box repeatedly and both regain their drive mappings... and I can use them after the boot.
Now i haven't tested this with any of the other boxes - but i figure if it works on one box; it'll work on all 3?